In Loving Memory of Joseph T. Markisz III: A Life Full of Heart, Grace, and Deep Impact

Port Chester, New York – June 15, 2025

With heavy hearts and unspeakable sorrow, the family, friends, and entire community of Port Chester mourn the passing of Joseph T. Markisz III, who departed this world on June 15, 2025, at the age of 39. Known to those closest to him as “Joey,” his life was a remarkable testament to the power of kindness, the strength of compassion, and the value of simply showing up for the people you love.

Joseph was not just a member of this small but tightly knit Westchester County town—he was a pillar of it. A son, a brother, an uncle, a cousin, a friend—his roles in life were many, but he carried each with the same deep devotion and sincerity. His sudden loss has left behind a silence that reverberates across every corner of the community he so dearly loved and so loyally served.

A Man of Quiet Strength and Constant Love

Born and raised in Port Chester, Joseph embodied the spirit of a hometown soul. He knew every street, every neighbor, and every backstory. He grew up here, made his lifelong friendships here, and remained rooted in the place that had shaped him. His humility and warmth made him approachable to all—from the elders who watched him grow up to the children who saw him as a role model.

What set Joseph apart was not flashy success or dramatic acclaim, but a steady and consistent presence in the lives of those around him. He was the kind of person who showed up without being asked. The kind of friend who would listen long after others had stopped. The kind of family member who never missed a birthday, a holiday dinner, or a hospital visit. His love was dependable, deep, and unconditional.

Relationships That Spanned Generations

To his parents, Joseph was a son whose pride in family was unmistakable. He respected their wisdom, protected their dignity, and honored their traditions. He was known to call daily, visit often, and always ask if there was anything they needed—even when he had struggles of his own.

To his siblings, he was both protector and friend. His laughter, dry humor, and ability to turn even the hardest of days around will forever echo in their memories. He understood the unspoken language of family love—supporting without questioning, listening without judging, loving without expecting.

To his nieces and nephews, Joseph was the “cool uncle” who always had time for games, ice cream runs, and advice that came not with pressure, but with patience. He made each child feel special, safe, and deeply loved.

To his friends—many of whom had known him since childhood—Joseph was a brother in spirit. He forged bonds that could withstand distance and time. He was the friend who would remember the little things, celebrate your wins louder than anyone else, and stand beside you in your darkest hour. His friendships were not superficial; they were soul-deep.

Legacy in the Community

Though not a man who sought attention, Joseph’s presence was felt in countless meaningful ways throughout Port Chester. Whether it was volunteering at a food pantry, helping a neighbor shovel snow, or simply offering his time and ear to someone in distress, Joseph’s impact was lasting.

He was known to be a quiet helper—one who never posted his good deeds, but whose acts of generosity spread through word-of-mouth and heartfelt gratitude. Local pastors, teachers, and neighbors alike have shared stories of Joseph lending a hand when no one else did, offering a shoulder when others looked away.

He frequented the same coffee shop every morning, where staff knew him by name and regulars looked forward to his daily greetings. He’d often sit by the window, reading or chatting about sports and community news, always with a smile and a kind word.

Finding Purpose in Simplicity

Joseph was not consumed by the chase for material success. He found contentment in everyday things—a warm meal with loved ones, a walk in the park on a crisp fall morning, or a good conversation over Sunday coffee. He understood that life’s greatest treasures were not in possessions, but in moments shared, in kindness given, and in love received.

His philosophy was simple: Be good, do good. And in that, he left a legacy that no wealth could rival.

The Shock of Sudden Loss

The news of Joseph’s passing has left the community stunned. His death came suddenly and without warning, underscoring the cruel unpredictability of life. For those who loved him, it feels impossible to reconcile that someone so present, so full of life and laughter, could be gone in an instant.

His passing has prompted a flood of tributes from people across every walk of life. Former classmates, coworkers, childhood friends, and elderly neighbors have all shared stories—funny, touching, and moving—about how Joseph touched their lives. Some speak of how he helped them through a hard time. Others of the way he always remembered to check in, even after years had passed. Each story paints a picture of a man whose kindness rippled far beyond what he likely ever realized.

Honoring a Life of Compassion and Loyalty

Funeral arrangements are being handled with great care and dignity. Services will be held in Port Chester, at a location significant to Joseph’s life and roots. His family is preparing a memorial that reflects not only the depth of their grief, but the breadth of his impact.

In lieu of flowers, the family has asked for donations to be made to local charities supporting mental health awareness and community outreach programs—causes that Joseph quietly supported during his life.

There will be a candlelight vigil held in the town square later this week, where friends, neighbors, and community members are encouraged to share memories, photos, and words of tribute. Local musicians who knew Joseph have volunteered to perform, turning the evening into a celebration of life and love.

A Spirit That Lives On

Though Joseph is no longer physically present, his spirit lingers in every act of kindness inspired by his memory. Every time someone lends a hand, speaks a kind word, or chooses empathy over judgment, his legacy continues. His life reminds us all that greatness lies not in fame, but in the quiet dignity of compassion.

He leaves behind not only a grieving family, but a community challenged to live more like he did: fully, honestly, and with open hearts.

Final Reflections: How We Carry Him Forward

The pain of this loss is profound. But in the sorrow, there is also clarity—a realization of just how much Joseph mattered to so many. His life was a masterclass in the power of presence. He didn’t need to change the world—he changed the worlds of those around him.

In honoring his memory, we are invited to live more kindly, love more openly, and show up more often for the people in our lives. If there is one message Joseph’s life left behind, it is this:

Be the reason someone feels seen. Be the reason someone feels safe. Be the reason someone believes in goodness.

Rest peacefully, Joseph. You were loved beyond words and will be missed beyond measure.