South St. Louis County couple’s tragic murder-suicide deeply impacts neighborhood
In the peaceful community of South St. Louis County, Missouri, sorrow now hangs heavily over the 100 block of Chinon Drive in the Mehlville–Oakville area. There, on the morning of October 5, police discovered the bodies of Larry Ketterling and Nicki Ketterling, both 77 years old, inside their family home.
Authorities confirmed the heartbreaking event as a murder-suicide, leaving friends and neighbors struggling to understand how such a tragedy could occur in the home of a couple described by all who knew them as “quiet, kind, and inseparable.”
At around 11:30 a.m., officers were dispatched to the residence after receiving a report of possible gunfire. Upon entry, police found both victims inside. Early findings suggest that Larry fatally shot Nicki before turning the weapon on himself. Both were pronounced dead at the scene by first responders. Investigators reported no signs of forced entry or involvement of any other individuals.
The Victims
Larry Ketterling, 77, was known in the neighborhood as a polite, easy-going man who often worked around his yard or chatted with neighbors during walks. Retired for several years, he spent most of his time at home with his wife and maintained an active presence in the local community.
Nicki Ketterling, also 77, was equally admired by those around her. Friends describe her as warm, thoughtful, and gentle. She enjoyed gardening, baking, and spending quiet evenings with Larry. The couple, married for decades, shared nearly every aspect of their daily life. Those who knew them said they seemed devoted to each other, which made the news of their deaths all the more shocking.
The Investigation
The St. Louis County Police Department’s Bureau of Crimes Against Persons took the lead on the investigation. Forensic teams processed the scene, and evidence confirmed the initial conclusion that the case was a murder-suicide. Investigators stated there were no ongoing threats to the community.
While the department has not released details about what may have led to the tragic event, detectives are examining factors such as health, stress, and mental well-being to understand the circumstances behind the incident. Police officials reminded residents that mental health struggles can affect anyone, regardless of age, and urged people to check on loved ones regularly.
Community Reaction
The tragedy deeply shook neighbors who had known the Ketterlings for years. One resident recalled seeing the couple nearly every morning walking their dog and exchanging friendly waves. Another neighbor described them as “the kind of couple everyone admired—gentle, caring, and always together.”
Flowers, cards, and candles have been placed near the Ketterlings’ home, where residents gathered informally in the days following the tragedy to pay their respects. Many expressed disbelief that such an event could happen in their quiet neighborhood.
Community leaders have encouraged open dialogue about emotional well-being, particularly among older residents who may struggle with feelings of isolation, loss, or health-related challenges. Faith groups and local counselors have also offered support, emphasizing that seeking help is an important act of strength rather than weakness.
Reflections and Awareness
The loss of Larry and Nicki Ketterling has prompted widespread discussion about the hidden burdens faced by aging couples and the importance of mental health outreach. Experts note that incidents like this, while rare, often stem from unspoken struggles—emotional distress, illness, or overwhelming life changes.
Authorities have renewed calls for awareness campaigns focused on suicide prevention and domestic well-being. Residents are urged to remain attentive to warning signs such as sudden withdrawal, talk of hopelessness, or drastic changes in mood.
In Memoriam
The Ketterlings’ passing has left an unmistakable void in South St. Louis County. They will be remembered as a gentle pair who lived with quiet grace and touched the lives of everyone around them.
Neighbors continue to grieve the loss of two people who embodied kindness and companionship. While the details of what led to the tragedy may never be fully known, their memory serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of compassion, connection, and mental-health awareness.
In the words of one neighbor: “They were always together. It’s heartbreaking to think they’re gone—but they’ll always be remembered as the heart of our street.”